Post by princessmoose on Mar 17, 2007 1:05:09 GMT
I have had enough of this constant interference in my life from people who have no idea about anything and seem to get the total of 500 from adding 2 and 2 together, so here is an explanation or whatever you want to call it.
Fine, "people" were "worried" just because I'd deleted my account - erm woopee??? When asked I replied with the fact that I'm busy, which is perfectly true. I guess it's hard for some people with no lives to understand that I have friends, I have a university degree to do and all the work that comes with that, and I have a job = a life. So, just because I decided not to devote the rest of my life to a bloody forum, I seem to have been blacklisted as a thing to be concerned about. Why is it so hard to accept my reply? Why is it so hard to understand that I have far better things to do?
So, emails are sent, private messages are sent and somehow it seems that a conclusion is reached, which is to email someone at my university to get involved. What utter codswallop, absolutely hilarious, when they know nothing, and the stuff they were informed of was probably utter crap anyway. Because of all this confidentiality rubbish, my best friend has no idea who my lecturer is talking about, when he tried to ask questions. My friend assumes it's someone else, and not me, when in fact it was about me, so this then gets back, yet oh my goodness, it's INCORRECT information. Although this confidentiality rubbish isn't really confidential seeing as it was posted in the wine bar anyway. No good has come out of emailing members of staff at university has it? It's made me annoyed (perhaps that was the intention) and it's made me realise that people who say they care actually don't give a damn at all.
Why get people involved at university when there isn't any issue whatsoever? Even my darn lecturers say that, as the wine bar readers will know. My lecturers have no cause for concern because my behaviour is fine and my work is fine.
ROFL, what? I do apologise if this "horrible thing" is that I've finally realised that spending time on stupid internet forums is pointless and I'd rather work at my degree.
It's been heading this way for a while. My sole reason for using this forum was to still ask questions and chat about music with friends and whilst things occasionally it got out of hand, I thought that was done with and I was trying to get on, yet constant stupid remarks are made about this 'The L. Ron Hubbard of Music' lark and the people on TOP - does anyone really actually care? They do what they want, you lot do what you want. What is the point in constantly going over and over the same things. It's pathetic. I distinctly remember a post in the wine bar from someone going on about trying to leave arguments and just use this forum for music which is what it's supposed to be - yet the very same person digs at 'The L. Ron Hubbard of Music' et al at every possible opportunity - IT GETS SO DARN BORING. No, I don't agree with some views and people on TOP and yes I've joined in my fair share here but I am so sick of it, I stop and have a laugh musically (I think) and yet adults who think they rule me STILL carry on. So in a sense that's also partly why I left, I can't be bothered with threads descending into stupid pregnant dog fights - enough of that goes on in the real world.
So I presume most people know this, but for thos who don't and have not understood my ramble, here is a summary:
Someone decided to email someone at the dept at Bangor expressing concern, or some rubbish like that - the issue with that being that there was no cause for concern and loads of misunderstanding and upset has been caused from that.
Although this said person who "apparantly" cares, doesn't actually feel guilty for making my life place where satan lives at all. Apparantly if my behaviour had been rational then none of this would have happened. I'm LOL "behaviour", it's like being at school again. Funnily enough, I'm 20 and can make my own decisions and can run my own life. I don't need people trying to make issues and problems when there aren't any. Why do people seem to get off on being depended on and needed? Evidently people don't like it when I'm absolutely fine and getting on with my life.
Genuine emails expressing concern etc is fine, but when I say I'm ok why do people ignore it? No-one knows me well in real life, if there was a big problem, my friends here would help me as would the university, not people on the internet who can only see what I type. If I want help - I'll get it, I'm not suicidal, and nothing horrible has happened - therefore I don't need help and I certainly don't need people interfering where it's not need and not welcome. I obviously now understand that some people just don't have anything better to do than to annoy me and try to create problems just because that makes them feel better. Well, no more, because I've finally realised that all this "I love you" and "I care for you" is all bull and just an act. If anyone actually cared, no-onewould have gone behind my back to lecturers with false information and false impressions of what was going on.
It's pathetic and some people need to get a reality check, get over the fact that I'm fine and get on with their lives - not interfere with mine.
I'm bored of it, as are some of my friends, they're not sure whether to laugh or cry at the upset that has been caused over this. I'm not expecting any of you to understand because none of you are here and know nothing about the past few months, but I will say that contacting lecturers and making situations worse has not just upset me. So don't feel guilty - I couldn't care less, just be satisfied that it's not only me you've upset and now lost as a friend - but my friends have also been upset. I hope that remains on your conscience, if nothing else. I doubt it though.
Some people are so heartless.
Apologies if people take this to heart when it's not about everyone on here. I think it's quite obvious anyway and you're all used to Nat rants, sometimes uncalled for. This one isn't however. Perfectly called for and perfectly normal. I'm not on drugs, I'm not depressed, I'm not going to commit suicide, I'm fully aware of what I am writing and what I've said is all my own thoughts and my mind is not clouded over by some stupid "horrible thing" that apparantly has happened to me. Whatever that is. Answers on a postcard please. I'm eternally grateful.
Fine, "people" were "worried" just because I'd deleted my account - erm woopee??? When asked I replied with the fact that I'm busy, which is perfectly true. I guess it's hard for some people with no lives to understand that I have friends, I have a university degree to do and all the work that comes with that, and I have a job = a life. So, just because I decided not to devote the rest of my life to a bloody forum, I seem to have been blacklisted as a thing to be concerned about. Why is it so hard to accept my reply? Why is it so hard to understand that I have far better things to do?
So, emails are sent, private messages are sent and somehow it seems that a conclusion is reached, which is to email someone at my university to get involved. What utter codswallop, absolutely hilarious, when they know nothing, and the stuff they were informed of was probably utter crap anyway. Because of all this confidentiality rubbish, my best friend has no idea who my lecturer is talking about, when he tried to ask questions. My friend assumes it's someone else, and not me, when in fact it was about me, so this then gets back, yet oh my goodness, it's INCORRECT information. Although this confidentiality rubbish isn't really confidential seeing as it was posted in the wine bar anyway. No good has come out of emailing members of staff at university has it? It's made me annoyed (perhaps that was the intention) and it's made me realise that people who say they care actually don't give a damn at all.
Why get people involved at university when there isn't any issue whatsoever? Even my darn lecturers say that, as the wine bar readers will know. My lecturers have no cause for concern because my behaviour is fine and my work is fine.
I am well aware that radical behaviour changes usually have unpleasant causes. I suspect that you, like me, are certain that something horrible has happened to this young lady.
ROFL, what? I do apologise if this "horrible thing" is that I've finally realised that spending time on stupid internet forums is pointless and I'd rather work at my degree.
It's been heading this way for a while. My sole reason for using this forum was to still ask questions and chat about music with friends and whilst things occasionally it got out of hand, I thought that was done with and I was trying to get on, yet constant stupid remarks are made about this 'The L. Ron Hubbard of Music' lark and the people on TOP - does anyone really actually care? They do what they want, you lot do what you want. What is the point in constantly going over and over the same things. It's pathetic. I distinctly remember a post in the wine bar from someone going on about trying to leave arguments and just use this forum for music which is what it's supposed to be - yet the very same person digs at 'The L. Ron Hubbard of Music' et al at every possible opportunity - IT GETS SO DARN BORING. No, I don't agree with some views and people on TOP and yes I've joined in my fair share here but I am so sick of it, I stop and have a laugh musically (I think) and yet adults who think they rule me STILL carry on. So in a sense that's also partly why I left, I can't be bothered with threads descending into stupid pregnant dog fights - enough of that goes on in the real world.
So I presume most people know this, but for thos who don't and have not understood my ramble, here is a summary:
Someone decided to email someone at the dept at Bangor expressing concern, or some rubbish like that - the issue with that being that there was no cause for concern and loads of misunderstanding and upset has been caused from that.
Although this said person who "apparantly" cares, doesn't actually feel guilty for making my life place where satan lives at all. Apparantly if my behaviour had been rational then none of this would have happened. I'm LOL "behaviour", it's like being at school again. Funnily enough, I'm 20 and can make my own decisions and can run my own life. I don't need people trying to make issues and problems when there aren't any. Why do people seem to get off on being depended on and needed? Evidently people don't like it when I'm absolutely fine and getting on with my life.
Genuine emails expressing concern etc is fine, but when I say I'm ok why do people ignore it? No-one knows me well in real life, if there was a big problem, my friends here would help me as would the university, not people on the internet who can only see what I type. If I want help - I'll get it, I'm not suicidal, and nothing horrible has happened - therefore I don't need help and I certainly don't need people interfering where it's not need and not welcome. I obviously now understand that some people just don't have anything better to do than to annoy me and try to create problems just because that makes them feel better. Well, no more, because I've finally realised that all this "I love you" and "I care for you" is all bull and just an act. If anyone actually cared, no-onewould have gone behind my back to lecturers with false information and false impressions of what was going on.
It's pathetic and some people need to get a reality check, get over the fact that I'm fine and get on with their lives - not interfere with mine.
I'm bored of it, as are some of my friends, they're not sure whether to laugh or cry at the upset that has been caused over this. I'm not expecting any of you to understand because none of you are here and know nothing about the past few months, but I will say that contacting lecturers and making situations worse has not just upset me. So don't feel guilty - I couldn't care less, just be satisfied that it's not only me you've upset and now lost as a friend - but my friends have also been upset. I hope that remains on your conscience, if nothing else. I doubt it though.
Some people are so heartless.
Apologies if people take this to heart when it's not about everyone on here. I think it's quite obvious anyway and you're all used to Nat rants, sometimes uncalled for. This one isn't however. Perfectly called for and perfectly normal. I'm not on drugs, I'm not depressed, I'm not going to commit suicide, I'm fully aware of what I am writing and what I've said is all my own thoughts and my mind is not clouded over by some stupid "horrible thing" that apparantly has happened to me. Whatever that is. Answers on a postcard please. I'm eternally grateful.